There are a lot of people in our world who get dressed every day and put absolutely no thought into it. When talking with people about the way they dress, I hear far too frequently "who cares? I don't care what other people think about me!"
I completely appreciate this train of thought. In order to be a successful and happy person, you have to have self confidence and like yourself as you are. That being said, anyone who thinks how you dress doesn't matter is only making their day harder on themselves.
The reality of our world is that people judge us based on how we look - if you don't pass the eye test, a lot of people won't give you a chance to get to your core content to impress them. This applies in both our personal and professional lives. Would you want someone to manage your money that looks like they can't afford a shirt without stains? Would you want a lawyer to represent your best interest in sandals and shorts?
Then there is the distinct advantage of how you feel when you know you look good. Think about your favorite shirt, it's probably not something that you look terrible in. Some very real benefits that come with being well dressed are all part of a great cycle:
you look good -> you feel good -> people perceive you better -> you tend to be more productive -> you receive praise for your abilities ->you feel good
This isn't about dressing a certain way to advance your career (though you might), or get the girl (though it can't hurt), it's about feeling great about being you! How you dress isn't the end all, but is certainly can't hurt.
Clothes that fit, ironed/pressed/folded, well made, patterns/colors that compliment - these are your keys.
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